When you talk to someone, do you use their name in the conversation?
Obviously this depends on whether you know their name, but if you do, how often would you use it?
For example, if you bump into a friend or acquaintence in the street, would you greet them with their name, (“Hi [Insert name here]”)?
If you have then have a chat with them, would you continue to drop their name into the conversation every so often?
I rarely use people’s names in conversations, unless there are several people involved and I want to say something particularly to one of them. This is just a habit, and also because I don’t always remember their name – I’m much better at remembering faces.
I’ve noticed that sales and marketing people tend to use your name a lot when they’re talking to you. I find this a bit annoying, especially when they mispronounce it – I know who I am, and there’s no need to keep showing that you do. On the other hand, it does make you feel a bit special, which is probably the point.
In other languages is it normal or necessary to use people’s names in conversation? Or is it just personal preference?